How to become the person you want to be

How to become the person you want to be

How to become the person you want to be?

We all have a desire to become the person who wants to be. Probably, most people have wished they become a hero in other’s eyes.

Before becoming a hero in others’ eyes, you have to be the right person. A right person always gets attention and can take place in other places.


Again, think what you want, what is your desire. Take time and make a list of the dreamy character you want to be, including the best features you make in yourself.


I am guessing that you search to become a person you want to be. You want to build a good character. The term of psychology, 90% of people want to make a character because they got impressed by before.

 Every good people or people who are idol in others eyes they have specific habits. All those habits have made them precious. 

 Today I am going to tell you about their habits, goals. After reading this article, you get-

How to set a goal you want to make?

How to build habits?

How to challenge yourself to complete a daily task?

How to grow your self-confidence to reach your destination?

Okay first all you have to think, what person you want to be then follow my steps and try to follow:

 1. Focus on your vision and passion

become the person you want to be
become the person you want to be

it is too much importance to understand and succeed to catches your love. If you choose the wrong character, you want to be. I am sure that you can’t get forward. So before starting the journey, it is very significant to choose the right one. 

You need to hold up. You are going to start the train. Before starting the train, it is essential to set up a destination. Setting a goal of you to want to be the person is like a setup a train destination.

2. Be loyal with yourself 

You cannot reach your destination if you are not authentic with yourself. The first stage is to be faithful to you To achieve a goal.

If you think I will do my work from tomorrow or after the weekend, that means you are breaking your promise that you want to be. So you have to be loyal and have to critics yourself. 

Suppose, you have done unrelated task which is disallowed and harmful to reach your destination that means you are cheating with yourself.

It will make a massive distance from you to your destination. 

You try to avoid those tasks which are harmful to your aim.

 3. Make it as a habit 

After completing the step of choosing the aim of the person you want to be, the second step is loyal to yourself. Now you have to focus on trying to make it a habit and convert it to passion.


You have to become very sincere to your works and responsible for your desires. Remember it, don’t compromise about your goal. 

Getting success is not as easy as you think. You have to do hard work for your desires. You can make it a habit.


It is the best way to be successful in every step of your life. It will be easy if you can take your aim, you want to be, take it as a passion.

 4. Take the daily challenge to reach your destination

I have forgotten who told this quote, “Don’t think about past and future, think your present, run for it. ” It is true that we need to focus on just our present. The present is everything, and it can bring success. 

Reason of unclearness, you can ask me what the relation between the present with your desires? I will tell you that the past has gone, and the future is obscure.

But we can use the present time. You can focus on today. Think about your desire that you have a dreamy character that you want to make in yourself.

Try to practice the habits of this character for today. You can give a challenge to yourself to complete step by step.

After a month, Calculate the tasks that you have done. If you fail in 1st month of your challenge, try to recover it in next month or try to complete more tasks than before/1st month.  

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5. Strong your mind

During the challenge time, you can get frustrated when you see you are not getting success. When we go to do something, sometimes we fail, and sometimes we get success.

But believe it or not, you will get success today or after one year. The process of getting sometimes, it takes time. But if it takes time to get success to wait for it.

Make a habit is not an easy thing. Your willpower will bring your fortune. Then you will become the person you want to be.

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6. Show your attitude 

Another one of the best ways to be the person you want to show your attitude. I think you will follow the previous tips I have written.

Furthermore, if you want to walk toward the road of the person you want to be, you can start to show your attitude.

If you want to become a good person you can show the attitude of a good person. Or if you’re going to be kind in other eyes, you have to show the attitude of a helpful people, or if you want to be a cinema hero you like most, You can make attitude like that him/her. 

Those of all ideas I have mentioned, you can follow. I think you will get benefited. If your willpower is strong and hungry to gain everything you want, you will gain one day. Remember, patience, and determining the mind will bring you forward than now. So be positive and work hard. You may be the person you want to be.

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