How to be yourself? Did you ever think about other opinions, what they said about you? Probably the answer will be yes.
We maximum people think about others’ comments, what they said to us. And that is the most significant mistakes happening in every saddest life.
When we look around us in our society, we see our parents, teachers they accept in their ways, and they order what they want.
Most of the parents say,” you have to become doctor/engineer, “and the teacher says,” learn this lesson.
And from that time we become lost enjoying ourselves. Day by day, we become emotionless because we live in someone else life.
When you see about the happiest and successful people in the world, you see one of the same features, that is, they always follow their passion what happens in their mind, no matter what’s other people’s opinion about them.
So today, you are looking for how to live for yourself, right? The secret only answers don’t priority others’ opinions and don’t entering others to make decisions of yours.
We have to make our decision by ourselves, and that’s the secret way of living with ourselves.
Today I am going to give you some tips about how to become yourself, how to overcome to think others compliments to yourself.
1. Know yourself and try to find out your passion
If you want to find your happiness and try to discover “how to happy with myself,” I think your first step should know yourself and try to find out your passion.
It is essential to know yourself. Your life will be meaningless if you don’t understand yourself and love.
You will get depressed when you reach the end stage of your life. So your golden time is now.
Don’t look at your back; know yourself first; understand your emotion, passion. So what should you do?
- Think again and again, what you like most.
- Discover what the purpose of your life.
- Where do you want to see yourself after ten years?
- Be sure. You are in your passion or not
2. Loyalty first with yourself
Do you salvo with yourself?
Don’t do this. You have no right to consider breaking your challenges.
You are want to live with yourself; you need to be a hunger for your desires. You have to be a loyal person with at least yourself.
Loyalty, honest, hard work, decent, and focus on targeting will make you happy and reach to your destination.
3. Stop hearing negative thoughts from others
We got angry maximum times when we heard negatives thoughts about us from others.
We can’t accept negative thoughts from others.
Do you know the secret behind it? It is very easy to catch.
Think again calmly, why you can’t take negative thinking? The reason is still you are giving priority to their thoughts.
Believe me, if you do these things, again and again, you will not be happy nor become yourself.
Peoples of around us, maximum of they are always trying to mock up you. So what? Ignore, ignore, ignore, and ignore their thoughts.
4. Stop comparing you with others
One of the main reasons behind to be unhappy and failure to become yourself is comparing with others.
Sometimes we get failure and becoming depressed just because when we see peoples around us, they are happy in their practical life, but you can’t.
Be cool! Failure will not stay your life; success in life is like flow and ebb in the ocean. Today you get fail, the next day, you will get success.
Furthermore, there are many reasons to compare with others. Some of we compare with others they just see the outside of very happy peoples, but every people have sorrow, and everyone gets fail in life.
But we can’t see their fails or sorrow ness. So to become happy with yourself, it is mandatory to stop comparing you with others.
How to take action:
- Look at yourself. Focus on your job.
- stop being like others, try to be yourself.
- Set in your mind that no one can perfect.
- Believe that one day you will get success.
5. Stop waiting for someone
We do wrong with ourselves when we expect from others when we are waiting for others. Waiting is not just a waste of time.
It is also one of the reasons to fly off from our ambitions we most of the people’s waste of time to wait for someone’s.
Be yourself, only yourself. To be happy with you, everyone should avoid waiting for someones.
Once a time, I have waited for my friends to make a decision. No one comes to me. It is a great mistake of mine.
It’s so essential to becoming a self-lover. Only self-lover can understand how beautiful the world is.
So, my humble request to you becomes a self-lover and happy with yourself, and you should give up waiting for anyone.
You should start your journey with yourself. Because your best friend is only you, mind it.
6. Set a plan for your goal
If you want to reach your destination, you need to make a proper plan. Without a proper plan, it is impossible to get success.
Make a perfect plan for your aim. Put all of your equipment you need to enjoy yourself with yourself. And try to grapple your entire target.
I think you will overcome your bad habits of giving priorities to others.
Related: if you want to take a challenge to self-love here I have a post you can read: 31 days Self love challenge
7. Forgive yourself and forgive your all mistakes
I mentioned to you before that to make yourself better and enjoy yourself, and you have to forget your past and forgive yourself for all of the errors you have before.
The history is past. Don’t remember your past, whatever it is. Sometimes we get frustrated because of our earlier stories.
I don’t call it bad history, I call it my experiences that I have learned .in my past days, I have been using my snaky friend.
After that time, I changed my self. Then I started thinking just for myself. I forget everything, how was my past.
Self-loving is not only about happiness. Self-loving is an art that everyone can’t feel. So if you want to enjoy yourself, forgive yourself and forgive all of your mistakes.
8. Don’t compliant about your fails
I think when you are trying and trying to build up a habit and but you are getting fail, again and again, then you think you are useless and not possible to get success by you, then that time you complain and frustrated to see others.
That’s a great mistake. Never complain about your works. If possible, you can do your tasks continuously until you get success. Keep in mind that one day you will get success.
9. Try to solve your problem and take across difficult stages
I know it is tough to believe yourself when getting fail again and again. When you will go to improve yourself and will go try to enjoy yourself, you will face problems and challenging stages.
That will be the best time to be patient with you. Try to solve your problem by yourself.
I know it is a little bit hard, but believe it, or not anyone can help well than you.so you have to across your difficult stages with solving problems.
Living with your self is not too much harder than you think. I have mentioned to be yourself not to become selfish, not to help poor people. Live with yourself doesn’t mean to become selfish or not social. I hope all my tips will guide you and will be helpful for you.