How to master of your own destiny?
We all have a desire that one day we will see us in a position. We dream we make how our lifestyle will be after a few years.
But most of the time some peoples make them as they imagine, some are not.
But what is the exact reason behind disable to reach the dreamy destination? Is it over a dream?
In the last 8years ago, my dream was to become a football player.
I had read a lot of books about it, got inspiration from celebrity footballers.
I bought a football and played for most of the day. But I don’t know why after three years;
I had lost my passion, love from football. Can you tell me the mystery of losing my love for football?
But as far as I think Behind losing my emotion from this sport, there are can be three reason-
Deficiency of the guideline
I have mentioned in the above that I have read a lot of books related to “how to become a good footballer.”
But is it sufficient to just reading twice books are enough to get the proper guide?
So, I think it can be the reason that I flayed from my destiny.
Lack of diligence
I had indeed practised more and more of a day. But honestly, to be an expert, need to more and more practice behind these.
I was not so much a dedicated person to make me a skilled person I football—that why I killed my destiny in my hand.
I was wrong to understand my passion
After three years of these, I know that my love is not in football. I love a different one. So it can be the reason behind fly off from my destiny.
Now, I can understand what I should need to do to reach my destination. And how to be a master of your destiny.
Now I am going to describe to you some tips about how to be a master of your destiny.
Deeply research what do you want and see the position you want to see yourself after five years.
You are already have known that I have made mistakes in finding my passion and the time I have lost for the walk-in the wrong road.
So before starting the journey, it is essential that choose the right way you want to go.
How can you understand what is your passion, what you want in your life?
The simple steps to find out your passion is –
Ask yourself, which sector you like most?
Which one is easy for you?
Do you have enough time to spend to reach the goal?
Is it legal or illegal? Need to say don’t take anything as a passion if is illegal
Be freedom, and Follow your heart
Everything is not depending on hard work. Master of your destiny is the skill of the art.
But you need to be keen to make a habit. When you go for the first time, you will get tired and fail.
But keep it in your mind that one day you will get success. Bravery and morale are more important than hard work.
If you are secure with your mind, and if you can keep your belief in your heart, you will set it brain.
After setting in your brain, you will effort to work continuously for your destination without getting tried.
Look at the typing keyboard; a good typing expert will never get tired until break will power.
So, how do you set in your mind?
Follow your heart; don’t take any work as a pressure.
Love your work, and it’s the most important that you should love your work
Take it as a passion. You have to take your action as an art.
Remember that no one will help you if you not help yourself.
Is the sound hearing hilarious, “how to help, myself!”.
Yes, you can.
Now you can question me how I can help myself?
Trusting yourself is the best support. See, you got the most valuable lesson from your teacher, your parents, and most of the philosophers.
But the question is, if you got the most relevant experience from them, why you are not so most successful in your life.
Because you haven’t followed their thoughts, that’s means; you have known all of their thought was so good.
But you have no trust in yourself. It is essential to trust your own inner. Yes, all their opinions don’t need to follow. You have to choose just one.
Then run for it with trusting yourself.
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We have to face our fears
I observed, most of my friends are afraid of doing the thing which is hardest for them.
They get fear to deal most of the time. And most of people fail when they think they will not perfect for any challenging works.
The obstacles to be a master of destiny can take one of the reasons.
So what is the solution?
The solution is, we have to face our problems and try to solve step by step.
It is widespread when you will going to taking a challenge, doing a new thing, you have to face difficult stages gradually.
No Return minded
I have mentioned that I had played football for three years, and after that, I changed my ambition; I realized that my aim was wrong.
What do you understand from my words? Yes, you have gotten. I played football, and suddenly I stopped, which means I wasted 3years almost for the useless acts.
So your first step is to find out passion and remember it when you will go for it never return or don’t be losing your road to the destination.
We have to work continuously until getting success. To be a master, you need to take all kinds of challenges if it comes in front of you.
Be confident about yourself
Mark twin said, “a man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.”
When you learn to believe yourself, the path will be easier for you.
When you look in the world most of the successful people, they have confidence whatever they are going to do.
Make your destiny and master of your destiny; its 80% depending on your confidence. Confidence will grow your energy, and you will get the power of moving forward.
So be confident and move forward.
So, from my 8years of experience,
I have written how to be a master of your destiny.
I think all of my tips will help you to guide in the future. And your dreams will come true. Starting the journey with a healthy mind means success will knock the door of yours.
So be calm and follow those tips.
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